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First, I’d like to apologize for falling off the face of the earth (and internet) for the last month.  I’ve spent several weeks fistfighting with a very nasty flu, which essentially brought all life – and wedding planning – to a sickly, tissue-laden halt. Somewhere around week three of my cranky, fevery delirium, I decided that the best cure I could administer (short of Congress actually passing a health care plan which covered me) would be to spend countless hours mindlessly clicking through bridal sites, drooling over multi-$1,000 couture bridal gowns. How could this fail to help?

Now, I must admit something: ever since I can remember, I have sworn I would not wear a white wedding gown. Too cliche, too traditional, too wedding-industry – not to mention, I am pale as a ghost and, after beige, white is the least-flattering color on my skin. Yet secretly (and now very publicly), I covet a ridiculously whimsical white gown. Preferably a ridiculously whimsical white gown with a train as long as 5th avenue and enough fabric to smother a baby whale.

In a world where thousand dollar bills rained out of the sky, here a few of my all-time favorite dresses:

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Amy Michelson, "Peaches and Cream"

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Bridal Blues

Posted on September 23rd, 2009 by Jenna Rose. 2 Comments

Jenna Rose

For weeks I’ve been spending hours pouring over new Etsy items or DIY wedding posts, beaming with the sheer glee of a bride-to-be. Our budget was drafted, we’d worked through the big decisions (when, where, how) and the ball was finally off and rolling. I felt like a kid tumbling down a grass hill, yelling “Wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!” But it’s hard to keep up that momentum when you realize no one else is joining in – when, in fact, it feels like most of them are standing at the bottom with their arms crossed, frowning.

Let me back up and say that we have a lot of friends who are very supportive of our relationship and are thrilled that we’re engaged. The problem is that those friends are not necessarily available. Two of my four closest friends are traveling abroad for the year with only intermittent internet access, and the other two live on opposite sides of the country. We’ve just relocated from Los Angeles to Dallas, Chris’ hometown, and the only people I really know here are her (mostly male) friends. While they’re also wonderfully supportive, they’re less than interested in hearing about dresses, flowers, linens, or my latest idea for save-the-date cards. One of their wives has already made several snarky comments about my ‘bridal brain’. (more…)

Back in Stage 1 of our wedding planning, in the innocent yesteryear when we lived in Los Angeles and our brand-new engagement basked in glow of California’s equal rights recognition, we were aiming for an August 2009 wedding. My dream wedding, in fact – a small group of our closest friends on a stretch of So Cal beach, me barefoot in a flirty white sundress from a Silverlake vintage shop, Chris barefoot in flowy linen pants and a white top. An intimate ceremony at sunset, followed by marshmallow roasting around a fire-pit and ample amounts of drinking. Cheap, simple, and perfectly magical.

Unfortunately, that option didn’t last very long. It’s not that either one of us are particularly obsessed with the ceremony being ‘legal’ (in fact, our ceremony in Spain won’t be legal, since neither of us are residents), but our best excuse for having a wedding in Los Angeles disappeared right along with California’s marriage rights. If our wedding wasn’t even legal there, how could we justify choosing a place that was so far away and cost-prohibitive for all our friends? To compound the problem, Chris got a great job offer in Dallas, and we decided to move back to Texas. Now Los Angeles would be a destination wedding for us, too, and it would be a lot harder to organize even simple things, not to mention the added costs of a hotel and car rental. And despite how much I loved living in LA, it is definitely not my idea of a honeymoon. Which meant another flight and vacation expenses on top of the actual wedding. Costs were ratcheting up considerably.
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Introducing Jenna Rose

Posted on September 17th, 2009 by Jenna Rose. 2 Comments

Jenna Rose

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Blogger Name: Jenna Rose
Location: Dallas, TX
Date of wedding: 8/14/2010 (ceremony) & 8/28/2010 (reception)
Venue/Location of Wedding: 10th century castle in Hondarribia, Spain (ceremony) & a friend’s kick-ass backyard in Dallas, TX (reception)

About me:
I am a writer and wandering artist who grew up in and around New York City. I’ve spent the last five years bouncing around the world, living in Buffalo, London, Florence, Dallas, Los Angeles, and back to Dallas again. Living in the south has taught me two indispensable things: one, anyone born a yankee stays a yankee for life; and two, the proper southern pronunciation of ‘shut the hell up’ is ‘bless your heart’.

I met my beautiful wife-to-be, Chris, two years ago in Dallas (her hometown). I had just returned from a long trip abroad, and was exhausted and completely broke, but a mutual friend dragged me out to a bar anyway, insisting I would have fun. Chris had a pile of books at the end of the bar table, and I’ll be the first to admit that I noticed the books first, and the girl second. When I put the two together… it was love at first sight. We fell headfirst into a whirlwind romance. Two months later we flew to Jamaica for a vacation, and four months after that we packed up our lives and headed west for the sun and sparkle of Los Angeles. Our wedding ceremony will be on the three-year anniversary of the day we met.

When I’m not wedding planning, most of my energy is focused on job-hunting, expanding my cooking repertoire, planning a vegetable garden for the spring, and trying to remember to update my blog. It’s been rumored that I’m working on my first novel, but my imagination and discipline don’t always see eye to eye on that. Negotiations look hopeful.

You can find my (very sporadic) blog posts at Welcome to Jupiter.