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Put on a wedding for little ol’ us? How much?!

 

Howdy, partners! We’ve made it!

Ok, sorry, I lay off the country-isms for a while (at least until the end). This is the final of my recaps for our California wedding–second-time-around, just-like-new-all-over-again-wedding. As this wedding was US-based (i.e. I won’t have to convert pounds for dollars for a lot of you) and we were on a somewhat-tighter budget (and we contributed more), I thought I’d end with our budget.

How much we were spending frightened me continually throughout our year and a half planning for our 2 weddings. We were incredible grateful to have both sets of our parents fund the majority of both weddings combined.  We also had few aunts/uncles/cousins flat out give us cash–without any strings attached–or have family or friends gift us everything from 5 jars of jam to a black and white photo booth. (Let alone, on top of that, contribute to our honeymoon-to-come on our registry through Deposit a Gift, SYE vendor.)

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Can’t touch this…

Our guest book was a black and white photo booth. Like a proper photo booth with the black curtains, funny hats and a (digital) start button… It was so much fun!!!

When Alex and I were wedding planning we really got our hearts set on a photo booth. Both of us loved the old time-y feel of the photos themselves and have the nostalgia for some of our favorite photos taken together in the (now deceased) dip & dunk photo booths at the Santa Cruz Boardwalk. The question then was two-fold: How can we find one? And can we afford it?

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White Knot ribbons + customized buttons by ButtonEmpire = corsages.

(Photos clockwise by Button Empire, K. Ono, and Wyatt Olson Photography)

A wedding with two brides should be gay enough right? Well, yes, but… sometimes you just want to make sure everybody’s getting the message: We’re Here, We’re Queer, and this is a Big F**king Deal! For that, sometimes you need to add a little gay detailia to your wedding, rainbow or otherwise…

To begin our gay detailia, we ordered a White Knot kit and sent them to my maid of honor for assembly. (Thank you, KT!) Next, we found our sassy wedding buttons to complete the ‘corsages’ for ourselves, the bridal party and our family from ButtonEmpire on Etsy. The corsages were comprised of a white knot + a London map button (20 buttons made from one map of London) + an ‘I’m with the bride(s)’ button (later used expertly by Julie & Jacqueline in their La Jolla wedding as well!). As an extra perk for Alex and me, ButtonEmpire created 2 special buttons that read ‘Those whom Love hath brought together let no Prop put asunder.’ — a fantastic button-with-bite pointing to the fact that we couldn’t legally marry in my home state of California because of Prop 8.

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Toasting us with some almond ‘champagne’

(…technically sparkling wine for those of you connoisseurs….)

Bubbly, Tri-Tip BBQ, grilled portobellos, rainbow cake and dancing, oh my! I can tell you right now, we had fun, ate well, and danced our boots off at our reception…

One of the things that my mom came up with was the idea to have Almond ‘Champagne’ (Sparkling Wine)–a bubbly you can only grown in California from the acres and acres of almond groves. It’s slightly sweet and available at Trader Joe’s for a reasonable price! This fit perfectly in with our overall theme and want to keep things ‘local’–whether it was local to Siskiyou County or local to California. Our almond sparkling wine complemented the ales from Mt Shasta Brewery, Hunter Orchard’s apple cider and home-brewed iced tea.

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That’s right, it said our names on the sign…

The ceremony complete, it was time for cocktail hour! In keeping with our country kitsch theme, we served local apple cider (non-alcoholic) and a signature Love Fest cocktail of lemonade and Sweet Tea vodka. Yum!

The best part about our signature cocktail was that we’d figured it out at the last minute. I mean, we always knew we wanted to have signature cocktails at wedding(s)– we even came up with three of them in the first week of our engagement!–but we hadn’t settled on just one in the whole 1.5 years of our wedding planning–until the introduction of Sweet Tea vodka to a birthday party we attended two weeks before the wedding. We are iced tea/Arnold Palmer lovers anyway, and making it alcoholic was even better!

For about a hour in between the ceremony and the reception, we mingled in the open courtyard between the Floral Building and the Art Building (reception was held in the ‘Art Building’–you gotta love how fairgrounds are laid out…). Now we really had a chance to relax and hug people, chat, briefly catch up, and generally enjoy the gorgeous early evening weather Siskiyou County was providing…

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The Celtic Cats performing during the pre-ceremony reception…

Rock n roll portraits wrapped up, Alex and I jumped back in Wyatt’s little red Nissan and headed on over to the Siskiyou Golden Fairgrounds! The ladies had already beat us there and we knew the guests had been arriving for the pre-ceremony reception of sweet breads (pumpkin, zucchini, apple & cinnamon) and local apple cider. Serenading the group were local band, The Celtic Cats, including my brother’s and my high school music teacher (fourth on the right) with Celtic classics and a few Siskiyou County originals.

We arrived with about 15 minutes left of the reception. I was initially a bit bummed we were missing the yummy food and the extra mingling time–but then the actual hellos started and posing for casual family photos and suddenly both Alex and I were REALLY overwhelmed! Oh! Not yet! You can’t congratulate us now!! We haven’t had the ceremony yet! Luckily, our amazing officiant, Janna, took us aside (behind a building) to wait for the ceremony to begin and we were clear of the guests well-intended, but incongruent well-wishes. From there, we had the whole view of the valley and Janna left us there for a good 5 minutes at least just to be together before we got in the line up for the walk down the aisle.

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