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Joey and I during Cocktail hour on the patio

We arrived at the wedding about half way into Cocktail hour due to the time we taken to do portraits, which wound up being just about the perfect amount of time since many of our guests who were using GPS systems got lost on the way to the reception site. Apparently Newport Beach has two 15th streets that do not connect in any way, and many of guests received messages from their GPS systems about “getting on a ferry”, so we actually arrived around the time most people were still showing up.

Our venues appeal stemmed a lot from its location and the indoor and outdoor nature of the spaces. When guests first walked into the space there is a large indoor room with a big opening that overlooks the harbor and sailboats passing by. We decorated the main room with a variety of jack o’ lanterns, and various other Halloween imagery. At the center of the room there was a black willow tree covered in purple lights with dozens on miniature pumpkins hanging from it (an homage to the Ray Bradbury book The Halloween Tree) at the base of which were picture frames of classic horror films and in front of them were our “Escort Card-Zoos”. Instead of table number we  opted for movie monster names, so each kazoo said the guests name and “You are seated at Frankenstein” etc. and then had an image of the monster itself on the kazoo.  We also had a candy buffet set up with a variety of different apothecary jars filled with candies we love and in our wedding colors.

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After we had finished taking photos with our wedding party and family we did try to make a little time so that we could have a few shots of just us. Too often I had heard horror stories from couple about receiving their photos back and there were zero pictures of just the couple, so while we definitely took less pictures of just the two us we did make time for some, here are a few of our favorites.

Our shoes!

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After the wedding ceremony we headed down to the beach to take a variety of portraits with our family and wedding party. This was a nice way of getting the party vibe started since we just goofed off for the most part. It also gave us an opportunity to acknowledge each member of our wedding party individually for being an incredible asset to our special day. Anyways here are some of our favorites from the shoot:

Our wedding party and officiant with bouquets created by my mom

Our Joined Families

Ridiculous Faces all around (Photo By Ashley Janne Photography)

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The Ceremony

After the incredibly stressful morning and set up time, by the time I arrived at the beach for the wedding I was totally frazzled. I was beyond nervous something else was going to go wrong and that the whole event would end up a disaster (again, this was so silly in hindsight).

We did encounter one snag but it was a minor one, our initial plan was to have the ceremony down on the beach ontop of the sea rocks, I was informed by the Orange County parks department that in that scenario no permits were needed for our event, unless we had a professional film crew coming (which we did not). But when we had to change the ceremony site at the last minute to accommodate the needs of our guests we moved it to one of the parks overlooking the beach, which had its own set of permit restrictions. A local who was unhappy that an event was taking place there had called the parks department, and a ranger came to inform us that what we were doing was illegal… however the ranger said we could go ahead but to please make sure we obtain proper permits in the future.

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The Coin

After the chaos that had been setting up and my emotional breakdown I was raw, but getting ready ended up being the fun that it should have been. My crew snacked on leftover cupcakes from the bachelor party and listened to ridiculous pop music (I cant remember who by but the lyrics were raunchy). My experience definitely wasn’t one of more relaxed prewedding stories, I ran all over the hotel making sure various things were getting done, which again in hindsight was silly. Still, it was nice to have a slightly less stressful period of time before things kicked off. One of the more awesome moments came when my cousin Michelle gave me two coins, one was a dime for Joey to put in his shoe (a coin in your shoe on your wedding day is supposed to be good luck), the other was a coin that was my great grandmothers and had been worn by many Noel Family Brides in their shoes. It was the most incredible something old, and I was deeply moved by the gesture.

My Wedding Traditions

Something Old: The aforementioned coin

Something New: My Neon Orange Chuck Taylor All Star Converse

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So me and my crew woke up (stupidly) early on Sunday morning and helped load up the cars with all of the decorations and flowers for the reception site and headed over to hall to set up. Joey and I were still doing the whole “I cant see you till you walk down the aisle thing” so he and his crew slept in late. I did however drop by their room to drop of my wedding gift for Joey.

When Joey and I first started courting each other (not even dating) we did as so many socially awkward people do, through mix tapes. My first mix for Joey was actually a concept album with a back story that flowed from song to song, and I called it “Songs for My Socialite”. Throughout our relationship Ive released sequels on various milestones, but it had been awhile since I had done one. Since Joey and I had our eyes on frugality we made a no wedding gifts to each other rule, unless it didn’t cost us anything to make. So I suprised Joey with “Songs for My Socialite Spouse”, which featured covers of songs about weddings, autumn, New York, and general lovey dovey stuff. I also designed cover art which featured two mummies cuddling.

As I was leaving for the reception hall to set up one of my in-laws stopped me in the hallway to say “You know its supposed to rain today…”. I actually did know, as you can see in my past recaps everybody kind of knew but the forecast predicted no rain till late that evening. So I put on my bravery shorts and pressed on. FYI Readers, That sentence could be considered foreshadowing…

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