I will admit that lately it has been hard to write about wedding planning. Not because we aren’t getting married – that is still the plan but because (right now) I’m tired of talking about it.
I am not trying to rain on anyone’s wedding parade but right now comparing wedding dress shapes to how I’m going to sell or donate most of my belongings for the move to NYC seems to take up the bulk of my mental energy.
So for the past couple of weeks, it has been hard for me to focus on wedding planning for too long. I actually feel somewhat guilty because this is a wedding site, IT IS, ya know, what we should be talking about so delving too far from that path, I feel like I’m wasting others time.
Even though, I am working on the wedding and I still want it to happen – I just didn’t realize how much the move would take its tool, especially with it getting closer everyday (the plan is to move in June). Lately, I have been thinking maybe we should elope and then throw the wedding another time, when things aren’t so stressful and up in the air.
Although, I know my fiancee wants to have all the pomp that comes with saying your nuptials but even she is getting worn out from all that we are doing in such a short amount of time.
I do need some advice, though (like always, lol). How do you pull yourself out of the wedding planning funk – if you suffered from it? Like, I enjoy knowing we will get married but everything right now is too much and with it being wedding season, I’m being inundated with expos and the like. I plan to go to some, just to keep my knowledge fresh (and to report – shhhh) but I can’t deny that I’m one step closer to throwing in the wedding towel and just going to the justice of the peace!
What is a girl to do? Any advice would be helpful. Hopefully, I didn’t bring you all down too much, just had to share.