Dear Fabulous Community of So You’re EnGAYged;
After months of sharing my wedding planning story with you, the time has come for me to say farewell. I have reached the end of my wedding planning process and recaps, all of which I hope you have enjoyed! I also hope that along the way some of my advice and experiences have helped you in your wedding planning process.
Planning a wedding is an amazingly rewarding experience full of ups and downs, surprises, and even, (at times) frustration. I pray that my posts have helped you to see all of those things, to be excited for them, and for some of the less-than-wonderful challenges, perhaps even helped you to prepare for them. I hope that some of my wedding details (which were by far my favorite part of my special day) give you ideas or inspiration for your own weddings.
To me, SYE is all about love. I am so proud to have been given the opportunity to share my love story with all of you. I have enjoyed this process so very much and look forward to reading posts by other SYE bloggers as they unveil recipes for their special days! There are not a lot of men out there in the blogosphere writing about wedding planning, gay or straight. I created my own wedding blog, The Gay Wedding Experience for that very reason. I am happy to have also been one of the few male voices on this site as well!
I want to thank each and every one of you for your comments, words of wisdom, advice and acceptance – all of which heavily contributed to the success of my own Mexico wedding and civil ceremony last year! You have no idea how thankful I am and will forever be.
To my husband, Tom: Thanks for your unending support and love. You are my everything!
Love,
Brian

Awwww! Wonderful words, sad to see you go though but you gave me plenty of ideas for my reception. Best of luck to you and Tom!
Thanks Cynthia! I can’t wait to see pictures from your wedding! :)
I enjoyed following your journey. Best of luck to you!
SAY IT AIN’T SO!!! lol It’s been wonderful virtually participating in this very important part of your lives. Congrats to you and Tom. You guys are fabulous and I wish you a lifetime full of love and happiness and rainbows :-) lol I will miss you!
Thanks SD! I look forward to reading more of yours! :)
I know Tami! I’ll miss being called Mr. Adorable by you. I have enjoyed our virtual discussions as well… and I hope you have a wonderful time planning your wedding. I’ll be watching. :)
Love and rainbows to you too!
thanks for sharing!
You will be missed! I’ve loved watching your plans and seeing the beautiful results. My best to you and Tom!
Thank you for sharing your story, Brian! Every update from you has given me a warm-and-fuzzy feeling. Congratulations on the start of your marriage!
You will definitely be missed, Brian! I loved particularly your discussions about incorporating gay symbols into your wedding–it was inspiring, thoughtful, and loving.
Thank you for all you contributed. And, best of luck to you and Tom in your marriage. Go with courage and love!!
Brian, your an inspiration. I look forward to enjoying your blog.
Thanks Wasabi! I look forward to reading more about your and Ginger’s wedding! :)
Hannah, that is so nice to hear! Thank you.
Oh Erica, Thank you! Congratulations to you and Alex too! I can’t wait to read your remaining recaps!
@Rose and Larry: Thank you for reading and for your wonderful comments!
Thanks Brian for sharing –
your posts helped up a stop to all the ‘wedding confusion’ I was experiencing and help me nail down the perfect wedding location – Puerto Vallarta! I’m now enjoying the wedding planning process again. I know I’ll see you a lot ‘virtually’ over the next year – referring back to your posts for advice.
Thank you!
…following your footsteps :)
M. I am SO happy to hear that! It makes it all worth it! :) I wish you the best of luck – Puerto Vallarta is AMAZING!